Started November 5, 2022, By If you find yourself paying for your girlfriends rent, bills, and shopping because she asks you all the time, then she is using you financially. Again, it all depends on the context and content of their message. (2016). Yes, anyone who wants to seek power and control over you can use you emotionally. How to Turn Down Family Members Who Keep Asking for Money For a quiet night with friends you just blew $100. In a second study, the researchers further explored how contact with exes relates to the quality of the current relationship by examining peoples reasons for staying in touch. Financial bullying can ruin a marriage: first-person stories | US Advice: He Keeps Helping His Ex | Psychology Today In the age of Facebook, we often know if a partner is still in touch with exes.6 If your partner is communicating with an ex, it doesn't necessarily reflect poorly on your relationship. Don't blow up on her and just speak your mind. This is a terrible blow to the narcissists self-esteem, and it will activatenarcissistic rage. Other times, she's the successful career woman," says dating and relationship coach Julie Spira. 3 Drinks for Two $50. Please consult your doctor before taking any action. It was during her first job, she recognized her skills in writing an more. Has an online love interest asked you for money? I gave her some money to help her get a used car, but she still struggles to pay her ($1,000 per month) mortgage and other bills. Ive not seen this question answered before, so here goes: Where do you draw the line when your girlfriend asks for money? Right. Moreover, being unaware of the truth may be more hurtful for you in the long run. She confirms "Often they will pretend to have their own money, but in reality, they are borrowing from Visa to pay Mastercard so they can finance the relationship until you're hooked.". Only to come back later w gifts to woo her back. These exes that the narcissist connects with because theyre still under the narcissists spell.